WHO WE ARE:
  1. LDRJS Trust are advocates who specialise in the education, guidance and support of many forms of emotional abuse which is a form of manipulation used to acquire and maintain control in any intimate partner/work relationship which may include: coercive control, verbal manipulation, verbal humiliation, menstruation/period humiliation, intimidation, invalidation, bullying, criticism, isolation, segregation, name-calling, put-downs, threats and gaslighting which can cause deep emotional psychological harm which can last for years.  

  2. LDRJS Trust enable people experiencing many forms of emotional abuse to focus on what is really happening in their lives, we enable and motivate people to spot the signs of emotional abuse, acknowledge their position and we support and enable trauma processing.   Our courses are specifically designed for confidence building, firm boundary setting, we train assertiveness via our courses and train recognition of inner strengths and self worth which ultimately enable people to emerge from emotionally abusive relationships/jobs etc and focus on their own bright future.

  3. LDRJS Trust are available to advise GP surgeries, schools and local authority departments.  

OUR SERVICES:
  1. LDRJS Trust offer high quality education, guidance and advice free of charge

  2. LDRJS Trust offer life coaching, mentoring and confidence building courses which include assertiveness training and firm boundary setting.  

  3. LDRJS Trust specifically design each course to meet the needs and requirements of each individual person

Our services are effective and discreet and form part of your own psychological medical care to help you safely emerge from emotional abuse and journey towards psychological well-being, survival and recovery.  

Often the signs of emotional abuse are quite hard to spot at first, the emotional abuser appears quite charming and pretends to act like the perfect partner/boss/friend etc in front of others whilst using negative feelings such as fear, guilt and shame to maintain their acquired control over another person.  

The emotional abuser will not recognise the validity of anything their victim says, the emotional abuser will not apologise for their abuse, arguments become one sided as the emotional abuser does all the talking and never listens, quite often the emotional abuse escalates further by the abuser's use of increasingly more vulgar and demeaning language as they watch their victim suffer, become more vulnerable and upset.  

We provide a neutral, non-judgemental, safe platform for discussion to enable you to free yourself from the hidden chains of emotional abuse and/or spot future signs of emotional abuse before escalation can cause you further profound emotional psychological damage.  We will educate, guide and empower you to acknowledge and help you process the abuse you have experienced or are experiencing, change negative thought patterns into positive thought patterns, empower you to engage in self care, confidence building and assertiveness training and teach you how to set firm boundaries.  Our confidence building and assertiveness training courses will enable you to safely emerge from emotionally abusive relationships, jobs etc.

OUR FOCUS:

Our focus is to help individuals motivate themselves, empower, become aware of their inner strengths, re-discover their self worth, build confidence and assertiveness as they journey towards survival and recovery. We listen to your concerns and customise an individual plan for your emotional psychological well-being as you move forward with your life leaving emotional abuse behind. 

OUR PLAN:

Our plan is to be there for you every step of your journey towards your personal education, empowerment, and confidence building, we will show you how strong you can be.  Our goal is to help you question and challenge yourself following your struggles, emerge from your pain, recognise your own inner strengths and self worth and safely move forward from abuse towards where you want to be in your life. 

We will enable you to focus on where your problems truly lie.  We will always be completely honest with you.  We will empower you to take back your life.

We will enable you to look forward to your own bright future.